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Silent Retreats

"Silence allows a connection to God beyond what words can express."

What are the benefits of a Silent Retreat at Bellarmine?

Our silent retreats help you to step away and disconnect from the worries of everyday life. Without interruptions, you have the space to reflect and refocus. Often our retreats help people by:

  • Restoring and renewing their energy

  • Reducing stress and providing time to process life events 

  • Deepening self-awareness and discovering new insights

  • Developing or re-engaging their prayer life in new ways

  • Improving their relationship with God, Jesus, and/or the Holy Spirit 

Our retreats are based on the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola, which have helped people for almost 500 years to let go of pre-occupations, to discover the deepest desires that God speaks to their souls, and to open up new possibilities in their lives. 

All components of our retreats are optional. You do not need to attend any talks, small group sessions, prayer services, etc. It’s your time to relax and disconnect. However, we ask all retreatants to respect the quiet so everyone can enjoy our sacred space in silence.

We invite you to embrace a weekend to experience the quiet and find the peace that can help you relax, rejuvenate, and return renewed with deeper meaning and focus.

If none of these retreats work for you or seem like the right fit for you, we offer other retreats, as well. Our full retreat schedule can be found here.

Upcoming Retreats

Is our house built on rock or sand? »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

Is our house built on rock or sand? »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

Details

September 11 - 13, 2026
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Fr. Paul Macke, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals, Matt Carpenter, St John Neumann Catholic Church - St Charles, St Laurence Catholic Church - Elgin

Summary

This men’s retreat will focus on the foundation of our life. Is our house built on Rock or Sand? Our world situation is often filled with chaos right now, and we need solid anchors to navigate these rough waters. This retreat will give some quiet space to reflect on what is most important for you and for our world.

This retreat begins tomorrow, but there is still space available. To register, call the office at 847-381-1261.

"Taking Heart" with St. Ignatius »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Women

"Taking Heart" with St. Ignatius »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Women

Details

October 9 - 11, 2026
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Fr. Jim Kubicki, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals

Summary

It is very easy for us to "lose heart" or to become discouraged, and in his last encyclical letter Pope Francis talked about an increasingly "heartless world." By reflecting on key themes of St. Ignatius' "Spiritual Exercises," we will "take heart" as Jesus transforms our hearts to be more like his.

A Jesuit’s Guide to the Stars »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

A Jesuit’s Guide to the Stars »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

Details

October 16 - 18, 2026
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Br. Guy Consolmagno, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals and Mazzuchelli’s Men, Holy Family-Inverness, Holy Spirit Catholic Community (Naperville) , St. Alexander-Villa Park, St. John Neumann Parish, St. Frances of Rome and the John Kasting Group.

Summary

Jesuit spirituality is centered on “finding God in all things.” What better represents “all things” than the universe itself? Indeed, Jesuits have figured prominently in the history of astronomy, engaging both the mind and the heart... the mathematical and scientific study of the phenomena, and also its history and philosophy, and its reflections in art, photography, and poetry.

Journeying in Friendship with Jesus »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults

Journeying in Friendship with Jesus »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Adults

Details

October 23 - 25, 2026
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Fr. Nick Albin, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals

Summary

Journey with Fr. Nick through a retreat exploration into the theme of friendship with Jesus. This weekend will provide an opportunity to reflect upon the joys and challenges within friendships while discerning how to root these experiences through the context of Christ’s life by examining his relationships with the apostles and the people whom he encountered in the gospels. This retreat will include applied personal reflections from Fr. Nick while drawing upon examples from scripture and the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola as prayerful invitations to deepen one’s friendship with Jesus.

Hope Lives in Our Real Life »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Women

Hope Lives in Our Real Life »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Women

Details

November 6 - 8, 2026
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Becky Eldredge

Groups Attending: Individuals

Summary

“We have this anchor of hope firm and secure.” Hebrews 6:19. As we survey our lives and world, hope can feel far out of our reach. Our faith teaches us that God infuses hope in us. Come and journey with Becky Eldredge, Ignatian trained spiritual director, retreat facilitator, and award-winning author as she invites you to embrace the gift of hope and learn practical tools to anchor into the promise of hope in our real lives.

Details

Monday, November 9, 2026 9:00 am to 3:00 pm
Location: Barrington, IL
Program Cost: $80.00 (includes Lunch)
Retreat Leader: Mark Blancke

Summary

In the midst of loss, grief, and our deepest wounds, Christ meets us where we are. This Day of Reflection offers a prayerful space to bring your pain honestly before God—whether you feel lost, are searching for hope, healing, understanding, or simply the strength to keep going. With reflection and prayer, we will journey together through grief toward a deeper trust in the God who desires to draw near to us. It will not be about “moving on” or pretending the pain is gone, but about discovering how Christ can carry us, transform us, and gently lead us toward life again.

Making a Real Connection »»

A Silent, Recovery Weekend for Women

Making a Real Connection »»

A Silent, Recovery Weekend for Women

Details

November 13 - 15, 2026
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Fr. Roc O'Connor, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals

Summary

The Twelve Steps provide a path for emerging from isolation and self-focus toward becoming real with self, others, and our Higher Power and, so, making worthwhile connections. Here’s one way of approaching the Steps.

Details

December 4 - 6, 2026
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Fr. Michael J. Graham, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals

Summary

Life rarely follows a straight path. Unexpected joys, sudden losses, new opportunities, and unforeseen challenges all shape our journey. In these moments of uncertainty, we are invited to pause, reflect, and seek where God is leading us. This retreat offers a sacred space to explore the ways in which life’s detours and disruptions are not obstacles, but invitations—callings to trust, to grow, and to deepen our relationship with God. Through guided reflections rooted in Ignatian spirituality, personal prayer, and quiet contemplation, we will consider how God is present in the unexpected, gently guiding us toward a future filled with grace. Come with an open heart, ready to listen to the stirrings of the Spirit. Together, in the silence and beauty of retreat, we will discern how life’s twists and turns are shaping us for something greater—leading us ever closer to God’s loving embrace.

Encountering Christ in the Spiritual Exercises »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

Encountering Christ in the Spiritual Exercises »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

Details

January 8 - 10, 2027
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Br. Larry Huck, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals, Four Shepherds

Summary

If I desire to follow Jesus Christ in my life, I have to come to know him. On this retreat, we will follow in the footsteps of St. Ignatius of Loyola in seeking to be a companion of Jesus.

"Taking Heart" with St. Ignatius »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

"Taking Heart" with St. Ignatius »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

Details

January 15 - 17, 2027
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Fr. Jim Kubicki, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals, Our Lady of Perpetual Help - Men, St. Mary - Lake Forest, The Queen of All Saints Men's Club, St. Charles Borromeo - Hampshire

Summary

It is very easy for us to "lose heart" or to become discouraged, and in his last encyclical letter Pope Francis talked about an increasingly "heartless world." By reflecting on key themes of St. Ignatius' "Spiritual Exercises," we will "take heart" as Jesus transforms our hearts to be more like his.

A Retreat with St. Peter: Growing from Sinner to Saint »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

A Retreat with St. Peter: Growing from Sinner to Saint »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

Details

January 22 - 24, 2027
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Fr. J. Michael Sparough, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals, Roche/Zera, Knights of Columbus #12497, St Patrick's - St. Charles TMIY

Summary

Experience the Spiritual Exercises by taking a deep dive into the life of Simon, named Peter, the rock, by Jesus. Just as he has two names, so he has two distinct sides to his personality. He is gentle, but bold; foolish, yet wise, and human. Together we’ll pray about what it means to belong to a Church that is larger than the sum of its members.

Anchored in Glory - A Retreat on Christian Hope »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

Anchored in Glory - A Retreat on Christian Hope »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

Details

January 29 - 31, 2027
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Michael Pederson, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals, St. Mary's Buffalo Grove Men's Club and Knights of Columbus, and Sts. Faith, Hope and Charity Parish.

Summary

Christian hope is not wishful thinking, but rather confidence rooted in God’s promise. Through Scripture, the Spiritual Exercises, and prayerful silence, this retreat invites you to rediscover and strengthen the hope we have through Jesus. The hope that strengthens us through suffering, failure, and uncertainty. Drawing on St. Paul’s vision of hope in Romans and the Church’s understanding of hope as a theological virtue, we will explore how God trains the heart to desire what truly lasts. Come encounter the God who calls you forward and anchors your life in eternal glory.

Details

February 26 - 28, 2027
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Damian Torres-Botello, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals, St. Vincent Ferrer Parish

Summary

This retreat invites you to walk through the sacred thresholds of Scripture: doors of encounter, freedom, suffering, and new life. Each “door” is a spiritual opening, a place where God meets us and draws us into deeper trust and love. Grounded in the Ignatian Examen, one of the key movements of the Spiritual Exercises, every session leads toward the door Christ still knocks on today: the human heart. Along the way, we cross Scripture’s most powerful entry points: the Threshold of Creation, the Ark, the Passover Doorposts, the Temple, the Manger, the Shepherd’s Gate, the Upper Room, the Tomb’s opening, and finally, the threshold into Christ’s own heart.

Details

March 5 - 7, 2027
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Fr. Mitch Pacwa, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals

Summary

Biblical scholar Fr Mitch reprises his insightful teachings with a deep dive into the psalms exploring their historical context and connection to The Principle & Foundation and the 1st Week of the Spiritual Exercises.

Praying with Paul of Tarsus and Ignatius of Loyola (Palm Sunday) »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

Praying with Paul of Tarsus and Ignatius of Loyola (Palm Sunday) »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

Details

March 19 - 21, 2027
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Fr. Jim Flaherty, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals

Summary

Although they lived in quite separate times and circumstances, Paul of Tarsus and Ignatius of Loyola share a common and dramatic experience of conversion to Christ. The experience shaped Paul’s theology as expressed in his various letters to the Christian and largely Gentile communities. And Ignatius’ Spiritual Exercises, as well, are shaped by his experience of Christ calling him to be his companion. In this retreat, we will explore some connections between a selection of Paul’s letters and Ignatius’ Exercises to show how they mutually enrich one another and invite us, in Paul’s words, “to put on Christ.”

Details

March 25 - 27, 2027
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Fr. Mark Carr, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals

Summary

Each Holy Week the liturgies of the Church retrace the path of Jesus' passion, death, and resurrection. As disciples of Christ, we are called to follow that same path in our lives. Through scripture, Ignatian contemplation, the liturgies of Holy Thursday and Good Friday, and quiet time for reflection, this retreat invites you to experience the depth of Christ’s love and the promise of new life.

Refresh, Renew, Respond »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

Refresh, Renew, Respond »»

An Ignatian, Silent Weekend Retreat for Men

Details

April 23 - 25, 2027
Location: Barrington, IL
Suggested Contribution: $395.00 per person
Retreat Leader: Fr. Brad Held, SJ

Groups Attending: Individuals

Summary

Jesus calls all people, and each of us in particular, to join him in building his kingdom. Retreating gives each of us an opportunity to refresh our ears to what Jesus sounds like and to renew our hearts to respond to his call. We'll use elements of St. Ignatius' Spiritual Exercises to aid us in that refreshment and renewal.